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Marriage, Loneliness and Help-Meet

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. - Genesis 2:18

One of the reasons why God institute marriage is to stop loneliness. But statistics show there are increasingly lonely spouses in marriage. One can't but ask what exactly is wrong.

Eve was an help meet for Adam. Loneliness don't just fade when you marry, it fades when you marry your help meet.

The word help meet in this context means one as before him, or correspondent to him, his counterpart, suitable to his nature and his need, one like himself in shape, constitution, and disposition, a second self: one to be at hand, or near to him, to converse familiarly with him, to be always ready to succour and comfort him, and whose care and business it should be to please and help him.

To the Singles, before you marry, you got to be careful you marry someone who will be your help meet. Marriage is better when you marry your help meet. That is our God designed it.

To the married but still lonely. Being married don't make loneliness to stop. You got to make effort towards helping one another, be there for one another, helping each other. the togetherness in all these things is what take loneliness away.

It's a blessed day. It's a miraculous day. It is your day.

Good Morning and have a happy-filled day. 😀


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