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SoulMates: The Right Approach to Finding Your Partner



“A man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” - Mark 10:7-9

Does God truly created just one person that you can marry or He did create like five persons from which you can choose from? At times, its laughable when you listen/read arguments that supports that We all have one special person created for us.

Eve was created out of Adam doesn’t literally mean God keeps on taking a man’s ribs to create wives for them. Aiit, Let say truly God created a partner for every human, what if one of the ‘supposed partner’ marry another person, will the other partner be single’? Or what about those who married more than one wives, are we to say they have married someone else wife? Lol…
Even the dictionary meaning of Soulmates is simply someone you are deeply close with. It is never meant to be someone you 'must' to marry.

So, the question should be what is God’s process as regards to choosing ones partner in marriage? Are we to choose from a pool of partners to marry from? Or there is that one special person we must marry and if we don’t marry such person, we have missed it?
I believe the concept of a soul mate is different from the question of whether there is one right person out there for each individual. To me, a soul mate is someone who shares one’s goals and belief system, someone with whom one forms a committed partnership, and ultimately, someone with whom one continues to develop and grow a relationship.
A relationship between soul mates is built on mutual respect, trust and, above all, a solid relationship with God. A soul mate does not come to you in a dream or vision, or even at first sight. Rather, a soul mate relationship is developed over time as one gets acquainted with their spouse and discovers who that person truly is.

So forget about this idea of a special one person that you can only marry. God has principles when it comes to marriage. Follow His principles and you will surely marry the right person and have a beautiful and a happy marriage. 

God's principles for finding the right partner are all found in the Bible. As a man, prayerfully seek, as a lady, prayerful choose. First and foremost, let your relationship with God be right, then you can ask God to help you as regards to relationship. Your relationship with God is vital to your marital life. A Relationship/Marriage that is built on God's principles will always stand firm when the storms comes.

Trust God for your own ‘soulmate’ rather than finding a ‘sole mate’.

 It's a beautiful morning folks, do enjoy the rest of the day.

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