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BBNaija2017: Cast the first Stone on Kemen

My Take on this KEMEN  of BBNAIJA issue.:

So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. 
 - John 8:7

I will be posting in a different way this morning. My post is about the BBNAija reality show. Though I rarely watched the show, there is this particular video clip that gone viral showing contestant KEMEN doing weirdly to Tboss. Some called it provocative act, some say it's totally a gross act. Whatever it is, here is my take on it. Mind you, it's a long post. 

What He did to Tboss was wrong, whether he meant it or not. But what is more wrong is after he has apologize to everyone and we are still bringing the issue up. 

Half of Nigerian guys does that. I for one have done it, I remember kissing her without her permission, luckily for me she responded in kind. If she has given me a slap, it would have been like KEMEN case.

Comedian AY making an insensitive joke out of it is distasteful. I have carefully watch the video on TVC. What KEMEN did is wrong, but let he/she that is without sin be the first to cast a stone on him.

Unfortunately I don't watch BBNAIJA reality show as often as that as I gain nothing from the few clips I have watched. But the KEMEN issue which is related to every women makes me to write a post on this.

I have come to realize that most men in Nigeria and in the world at large might not see anything wrong with what KEMEN did as it is being done on a daily basis and the justification will be to try your luck or blame it on 'KONJI' as AY said. ( Konji is a word Usually used by people of Nigerian descent to describe a state of extreme horniness)

Women are been abused on a daily basis because cases like this are getting allowed by our society. Our moral value is fast eroding. We see nothing wrong in sexually harassment as long as there is no penetration. Both guys and ladies are guilty of this but it's more of the males.

Let men stop seeing ladies as a sex object. If you think you need sex, get a WILLING partner and not force yourself on an UNWILLINGLY Partner.

That said, KEMEN can't put his life on hold because of the incident as some die-hard fans can't forgive him, I bet most of them are guilty of it, only because they are not caught on camera. For the fact that He has apologize, the guy deserve to be forgiven. 

For the matter to have a closure, both KEMEN and Tboss should come out together and release a statement to their fans and world at large that they have settled it and have moved on.

Say No to sexual harassment or assault in any form whatsoever.

On this note, I rest my case.

Good Morning and do have a wonderful weekend.

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