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My Advise for the Singles

A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels.  - Proverbs 1:5

I want to thank you all for your support and well wishes on my wedding day yesterday. I told my groomsmen yesterday that I will be writing a post for them today. Lol, so this post is for every bachelor, spinster out there. I just have this few advice for you:

It's good to get married but it's better to get married to the right person.

It's important to plan for your WEDDING but it's far more important to plan for your MARRIAGE.

It's better to marry the right person late than marry the wrong person early.

Do not budget according to your planning but rather plan according to your budget.

Never and ever elope with your spouse, no matter what.

Marry the person of your faith and beliefs. Can Two walk together except they agree.

Guys, Don't marry because you see a lady as a sex object.

Don't marry because he/she is rich. Money is important but marry because of the potentials in them. A rich spouse without any future ambition is better than a upcoming spouse with future ambition.

All is not money, guys, never wait till you save up to a a million before you marry.

There is nothing wrong with elaborate wedding, neither is anything wrong with a simple wedding.

Your traditional wedding ceremony is the main wedding, the so called 'white wedding' is simply the imported British traditional wedding.

 For now, I'm gonna stop as wifey want to play scrabble. Lol...  I promise continue tomorrow.

It's a beautiful and sunny afternoon. 

Good day and do enjoy the rest of your day.

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